Don't Drink Diet Coke

Madeline has been very fussy with gas a few nights this week. By process of elimination, I have determined that this must be because of me drinking a glass of diet coke at lunch (this is all the diet coke I drink since I know I need to avoid caffeine). So, bye, bye diet coke :( See you again in 4 to 10 months!

Madeline has been making noises (other than grunts and crying). The noise kind of sounds like a chicken going "brawwwwwk!" I know that years down the road Madeline will love that I wrote that! Maddie, you're getting more and more beautiful every day!

Quick Updates- 6 weeks, 2 days old

Lost cord - 3 weeks and 6 days, must be a record!

Have given more smiles. The biggest and brightest was 11/10, your daddy's birthday

Went almost 6 hours between feedings last night. However, I was up until midnight with Hadley and again at 1:30am from hearing your congestion, so I didn't get to enjoy 5+ hours of continuous sleep.

You are still congested. You don't have a cold. Apparently this is fluid from birth that is still working its way out. No runny nose or fever, just fluid high up in your nose. I hate how it makes you choke when it gets in your throat. I get out what I can when I can using the bulb syringe, saline drops, and a humidifier. Most of the time I can't get it though. Fortunately it doesn't cause you to fuss.

Tonight was your first time to really fuss about your stomach bothering you. I have no idea what I ate, but you were pretty uncomfortable, fussy, and gassy for at least 20 minutes. We were able to comfort you the rest of the evening, but I could tell you didn't feel wonderful.

You are so bright eyed now! You like to lie on my chest, raise your head, and look around. You also like to relax with your head against my chest and look at whatever there is to see.

Some days we take naps together while Hadley naps. I hold you against my chest with the boppy around for extra protection. I love this time. I get some rest as well as bond with you. You are growing so fast that I feel like I'm not getting any time with you. Really, you're already 1.5 months old already!?! You're getting so big too. It fills me with love and breaks my heart at the same time.

Hadley loves you very much, sometimes too much. I caught her just before she shared (threw) a couple of books on you in the swing. She's very sweet to you and is great at giving you the pacifier. She also likes to get thisclose to your face and almost yell, "HI MADELINE! IT'S OKAY MADELINE." I know the two of you will be good friends. Hadley's already tried to share her treats with you. I think you'll learn quickly that she'll do this... You two sisters better not team up against me! ;)

Oh how I love my girls!

1 month old

Madeline is one month old today!! How has a month passed by already??? Yesterday she smiled at me :D I was holding her up and saying silly things. To my complete surprise, she looked right at my eyes and smiled the most beautiful smile!

I took a couple of pics of Maddie today. I'll post those 'soon'...

Oh Poor Madeline

I had to break the news to Madeline that she might not be the cutest baby for a little while. She lost her cord on Sunday, got a bath, and then I realized that her hair is falling out just like Hadley's did :( She'll look like a balding man for a little while. I wonder if her hair is going to be blond and stick straight out like Hadley's did when it grew back in?? That will definitely be cute!

Poor Madeline #2 - she has a cold! You could hear the stuffiness, but not get to it with the bulb syringe. I was finally able to suction some out an hour ago. She seems to be breathing better. Fortunately the cold doesn't appear to be bothering her, just an inconvenience. She actually slept from 10:30 until I woke her up at 2:30am! I wouldn't have woken her up except her congestion and gas woke me up. There wasn't much point in trying to sleep for another 15 or 30 minutes, so I woke her up to suction her nose (or try) and feed her. I wonder how long she would've slept?? Even though I was up very briefly at midnight with Hadley, it still felt nice to get a 2.5 hours of sleep in a row! Maybe this will continue... For now, let's get this baby better!

Milestones

Madeline FINALLY lost her cord today. I think this may cause her to have a partial outtie? As a result, she also had her first real bath today. She didn't love it, but she didn't cry the whole time either.

Sleep where art thou?

As I've said before, Madeline is a great baby. She does allow me to get sleep. However, the last two nights have been difficult. She's still going straight to sleep after eating, but then she wakes up again in 2 (rarely 2.5) hours. Sometimes it is because she's hungry. Other times it is because she's fussing while making a dirty diaper. I am able to feed, burp, and change Madeline in less than 30 minutes, unless she pees on her clothes... which she did twice last night (that doesn't add that much time though). But, that only leaves 1.5 hours for sleeping, assuming Hadley doesn't wake me up during that time.

So, my goal is to figure out how to increase Madeline's sleeping time at night. I do let her fuss a little bit when I think it hasn't been long enough between feedings, but not too much because I don't want Hadley to wake up. Plus, I am trying to anticipate Madeline's needs so Chris's sleep is disturbed as little as possible. Most days I'm able to catch a nap during the day (which makes a WORLD of difference), but Chris can't do that because of work and/or he's not a daytime napper.

Maybe tonight will be our lucky night! I know Madeline can sleep for 4+ hour stretches as she has done so before. She will figure it out soon. As for me, this is why I'm on maternity leave! I can only image the quality of work I could produce on this crazy sleep pattern.

3 weeks old!

Madeline turned 3 weeks old yesterday :D She is such a joy! Words cannot describe the blessing she is to our family. Madeline is an easy baby. She sleeps well in her bassinet. She eats well, and fast (which is nice at night when I want to get back to sleep). She rarely ever spits up... however, when she does, it's A LOT. Now that I think about it, she hasn't truly spit up in 4 days. Maybe she's past the projectile spit up phase?

Madeline had a great 2 week check up! The doc said she looked fantastic! Her stats were:
8 pounds 8 ounces (Hadley was 7 pounds 14 ounces)
21 inches (Hadley was 20 inches)
Head Circumference was in the 17th percentile (Hadley's was in the 90s I think)

Looks like Madeline is on track to be slightly bigger than Hadley, but who knows!

Here is a list of happenings from the last 3 weeks:
-Madeline enjoys her sponge baths. She actually fell asleep while I was washing her hair.
-Her cord has not fallen off yet. Hadley's took a while too.
-We've only had 3 "rough" nights. Seems like too much red sauce (from lasagna and pizza) mess up Mad's belly. That was the cause for part of the rough nights. The last night was a combination of an upset stomach and then being wide awake until 2am.
-Madeline hasn't had an inconsolable crying fit. Even when her tummy hurts, she cries until she's passed gas/made a dirty diaper and then wants to be held. It's like she relaxes better by being cuddled. Makes sense!
-I took Mads to the doc at 10 days old because of a clogged tear duct. Unfortunately, they would not give me the prescription over the phone. Fortunately, when I arrived for her appointment, they sent us directly back to a room that had not been used all day in a section of the office that also hadn't been used. I greatly appreciated this due to all the children coming in with the flu and/or H1N1 (swine) flu. She was already 8 pounds and 1 ounce at this visit. My babies grow fast! Now worries about reaching their birth weight at 2 weeks ;) God blessed me with good milk and good eaters!
-Hadley is a very sweet sister to Madeline. She says, "Hold it!" and many other things. Hadley's very patient with Madeline when she's crying. She'll say, "It's okay Madeline," or "Madeline's crying," or "Madeline's sad," or "Don't cry Madeline!" She hasn't once gotten irritated with Madeline crying, not even during the 15+ minutes of crying in the car. I was very proud of Hadley's patience. Hadley loves her sister very much!
-Madeline has a gorgeous smile! We get to see her smiles when she is dozing off. I am excited to see her first real smile!
-Her hair is not falling out like Hadley's did... at least not yet. It is also lighter than Hadley's was at this time.

I know there is much more to mention, but I can't think of everything right now. Plus, it's 10:30pm, so I want to go to bed!

We will most likely combine the blogs soon so that you can read one blog for info on the girls. Having one blog will also make it easier to update since almost all stories will involve both Hadley and Madeline.

Thanks to everyone for all the meals, diapers, prayers, and congrats! We are so blessed to have two healthy, beautiful, kind daughters. God is good!

Madeline Kate is here!

Madeline Kate Gundersen arrived Monday, September 28th, 2009, at 12:05pm! She weighed 7 pounds 12 ounces and was 20 inches long. Madeline was very healthy when she arrived, so healthy we got to keep her with us all day (we did not get Hadley for 5 hours)!

Here is Madeline's birth story...

Sunday the 7th was a typical Sunday. Chris, Hadley, and I all woke up and went to church. During Sunday school I had one or two contractions. During the service I had another contraction or two. One or two contractions per hour continued until late in the evening when it became 3 or 4 contractions with some consistency. After getting Hadley to bed, I began cleaning the kitchen, picking up toys, and finished the last load of laundry. Just incase this was "it", I wanted the house to be relatively clean.

At 11pm I was in bed still having a few regular contractions. Chris was up watching a movie. Since I didn't want to get out of bed (lazy), I sent Chris a text saying, "You may want to come to bed and get some sleep while you can. These contractions aren't going away." He did come to bed and said how excited he was!

I remember looking at my clock and reading 2am. I had yet to fall asleep. I was tired, but the contractions kept waking me up. At this point it seemed like a good time to start timing them. I got up, went to the den, got on Facebook, and timed my contractions with a good friend of mine who is a missionary in Colombia (thanks Kendall!). By the third contraction that was 10 minutes apart she told me I better go ahead and get in the shower! Three contractions hit me in the shower. It was then that I knew this was "IT!!" Chris and I had talked about both wanting showers before going to the hospital, so I woke him up saying, "I'm sorry to wake you up, but you should probably go ahead and get in the shower if you're going to get one." This was 4am. He got out of bed faster than usual. When he got out of the shower I could see the excitement in his eyes.

I packed a few bags for Hadley since I wasn't sure if she would be going to daycare, to Aunt Heathers, or the hospital. I also packed the last of my bag. I knew my mom would be up at this time to drive to work, so I called her. My contractions were ranging from 6 to 8 minutes apart at this time. She said I should probably go ahead and call the Gundersens (I hated the thought of waking anyone up if this wasn't real labor). Mimi and Popi got the call around 4:45am. Next on the call list was Aunt Heather - she graciously offered to stay at the house until Mimi arrived so Hadley could sleep. Chris almost had the car loaded at this point... which was good because I was starting to get nervous! On the way to the hospital my contractions were coming 4 to 5 minutes apart!

When we arrived at the hospital I was 5 to 6 cm and 70% effaced (almost exactly the same as with Hadley). Chris and I did NOT like the nurse. We told her I was planning to deliver naturally. She immediately began asking why and saying how crazy that was. Believe me, I KNOW! I've done it once and thought I was insane then. Fortunately, her shift was ending. The next nurse we got was wonderful :D

We checked into the hospital at 5:45am. I do not remember what time it was when I reached 7cm, 8cm, etc... What I do remember is the nurse checking me and both times I was at 7cm. The second time she said, "The baby's head needs to turn. Let's get Sarah to change positions for a while." So I was on my knees hugging the top of the bed when the "panic" hit. I do use the term panic somewhat loosely. The fear of experiencing another birth like Hadley's (getting stuck at 9.5 cm to delivery for 1.5 hours) was hitting me. At this point, and a few others, my emotions were getting the best of me. I was telling Chris and mom that I didn't want to do this if it was going to be like Hadley's delivery, that I didn't think I could. Then, and each time after, they reminded me that I could, that this delivery was not going like Hadley's did, and that I was handling the contractions well - even better than with Hadley. Let's just say I wasn't very polite to them for encouraging me! However, I never did say, "Give me an epidural." I couldn't make the words come out. The truth was, I knew I was doing better with the contractions. If I focused on relaxing my body and breathing properly, the contractions weren't excrutiating. I could feel my body doing the work it was supposed to do.

The breathing technique I used was nothing special. I focused on taking deep breaths. The trick was breathing in so that my lungs inflated in my abdomen. It felt like my lungs were massaging my uterus (I read about this online and thought I'd give it a try). Breathing this way did feel a lot better. It also helped me stay relaxed.

I was checked and came in at 8cm twice - again an emotional moment. I couldn't hold my legs up or still. They shook uncontrollably much of the time... due to stress, tiredness, and fear I think. Poor mom and Chris had to hold my legs the whole time! At this point I remember mom telling me, "Sarah, you're almost there. You're doing great. Madeline is doing great and will be here soon. You're almost there!" To which I responded, "That isn't helping, you said that last time! I want to talk to the doctor." I do feel bad for being so rude!

The doc came in and finally said we could break my water. He was putting it off because he didn't wanted to be sure I got the second dose of antibiotics since I tested positive for Group B Strep. Breaking my water did get things moving. I quickly progressed to a 9ish cm.

I kept telling everyone I needed to push, even though I knew that you aren't supposed to until 10cm. My body would push during a contraction. I was fighting it because I thought it was too early. This messed up my breathing a lot. I began hyperventilating and needed some oxygen (did this with Hadley too). Mom said it was time to change my breathing, but I was being stubborn. Chris had to get in my face and start breathing for me. It worked. After another contraction or two I had switched to the new breathing technique for pushing. The nurse held back the lip of my cervix to help me get to 10cm. They let me push a bit and called the doc.

I could've delivered Madeline before the doc got there, but the nurse was telling me not to push. Geez, this is hard! I could tell God was having mercy on me though. He gave me a very nice, relatively long break between contractions while waiting on the doctor. The doc came in, suited up, and got in position. I distinctively remember my mom saying, "I'm sorry, but your gloves were all over that curtain. Would you please put on new gloves?" He graciously obliged. I thought to myself, "Remember that. It will be funny later." I did, and it still is :D

I could feel Madeline crowning. I knew I was doing a much better job of pushing than with Hadley. Don't let anyone tell you head size doesn't matter! Crowning was kind of painful, but nothing like a contraction. Besides, I knew crowning was very temporary. The doc then said, "I'm going to tell you to stop pushing in a minute. It will mean you're ready to push her out, but I want to help you not tear first." We got there. Again, my stubborn side came out. The doc said, "Okay, stop pushing!" I did... for a second. It was tough. I thought, "Who cares if I tear? That part of healing didn't bother me last time. I don't want to go through another contraction! I'm pushing!" .... and out Madeline came!! She was out easily, head, shoulders, and all! Pushing lasted around 30 minutes. Madeline came out crying with her bottom lip stuck out in a very pouty manner. She quickly began moving her mouth to let us know she was ready to nurse. I got to love on her for a bit before she went to the other side of the room to be weighed. Exhaustion from Hadley's delivery kept me from having a lot of emotion. This time I was kind of crying. I was so thankful to be done with the delivery, thankful to be holding my daughter, and thankful to have such wonderful help with delivery (I will never consider a natural birth without Chris and my mom).

As Madeline was lying on my chest, I remember saying, "You're so tiny!" Wrong! I heard the nurse say she was 7 pounds 12 ounces. What?! Yes, I was shocked. That's not a huge baby by any means, but it is over 1.5 pounds bigger than Hadley was!! I did not think she would be over 7 pounds.

Around this time I heard the nurse say, "I'll start the pitocin." I immediately said/yelled, "No pitocin!" I knew what it was for, but I did not just make it through a drug-free delivery to be given pitocin now! The nurse started telling me why I needed it, but the doc said, "She says she doesn't want it." I then forgave the doctor for taking so long to get to me while I wanted to push.

The stitching took a little while. I had a 2nd degree tear, nothing major.

We were fortunate enough to keep Hadley with us all day. We let family come in to meet Madeline. The nurse came in to give her a bath. Sometime shortly after that I nursed Madeline for the first time. She took to it like a champ!

Mimi and Popi brought Hadley by later that evening. Hadley was very happy to see her little sister. She started at her and said things like "Madeline" and "baby sister". Hadley was very gentle and not trying to grab or poke Madeline. She gave me and Chris a little bit of attention before playing by the door with her cousin Katya. Before she left to spend some time in Manchester, she did blow us some kisses! It was very strange seeing Hadley and Madeline and realizing Hadley is not the baby anymore. But, my heart was definitely overflowing with love. The only true regret I have for that day was that we didn't get a picture of the 4 of us at the hospital.

The next 2 days in the hospital were great (well, except for being discharged... that's another story for another day). Madeline was sleeping and eating very well. The pediatrician used the word "perfect" to describe her. I do not know what she weighed when we left the hospital. Maybe I'll find out at her 2 week appointment.

Chris and I are overflowing with love for our new daughter and our bigger family. Madeline has been a spectacular baby. She eats well and sleeps well. Hadley is a very kind big sister. She likes to see Madeline and is very gentle. She has not gotten jealous yet. Thankfully Chris was home with us all last week and will be again this week. It is very nice to have this family time. I'll be very sad when he has to go back to work! For those that don't know, Chris is an amazing father and husband. Not only did he coach me through a 2nd natural childbirth, but he's also changed many diapers and helped with any and everything around the house while I recover. Never once has he complained. Last night a hymn kept replaying in my head, "Give Thanks". As I sang the words I thought, "How appropriate! God, I am so thankful!"

Madeline Kate- Mommy, Daddy, and Hadley love you very much. I am so happy you are here to hold. You are such a sweet baby. You sleep well. You are not fussy. I expect you will be a calm, relaxed little girl. You are a greatly loved addition to our family!

(Sorry for any grammatical errors. This is too long, and it is too late, to proof!)

39 weeks in the morning

Chris, Hadley, and I had a great this Sunday. The weather was gorgeous! Fall is finally making it's arrival after a hot summer and week or so of rain. We are getting anxious for Madeline's arrival, and I think she just might be getting anxious to meet us. I had a few contractions yesterday evening, last night, during church, and again this afternoon. They were all sporadic except for this evening. I had 3 in a row, all about 10 minutes apart. Since then my feelings have mostly been Madeline moving and stretching.

So, who knows what's going to happen when! We will all have to wait patiently... or anxiously! My next check-up is Tuesday.

38 weeks + 3 days

and still going! I slept better last night than I have in a while, and I can definitely tell a difference in how I feel today! Hadley shared her cold with me. I think I'm already over it (lasted 2 days and was very mild). This was a huge blessing because I had a horrible cold when I delivered Hadley. I remember being able to hear things, but it all sounded muffled. My mom kept having to repeat what the doctor was saying. I would much rather try this delivery without being sick :D

So, I know Madeline could come any day. I am thisclose to having all my goals complete at work! I wanted to get a few more things wrapped up, mostly to not inconvenience others. If she waits until mid-next week (or even this weekend), I should be able to do it!!! We will see though!

Hadley and I are off to the park to play with friends. It's been raining for what feels like 2 weeks... we're ready to get outside!

38 weeks!

It's almost time to deliver a baby!! Yes, I'm nervous!

Stats from my check-up today:

3cm, 70% effaced, head in the -2 to -1 station, great heartbeat, my blood pressure was good.

The doc and I both think she'll wait until next week to arrive, close to her due date like her big sister.

37 Weeks and Congratulations

I had my 37 week check up today. Much to my surprise (although I have no idea why), I have progressed to 2 to 3 centimeters! The doc asked, "Are you ready?" Uh oh! Nope! Well, I have a lot planned to do by the end of the week since Hadley's having a sleep over with Mimi and Popi. Nan has been a huge help in getting things ready too. As of tonight, all of the things we need for Madeline are washed and folded. I'm finishing up our laundry now so that I can pack my bag.

Over the next few days our new couch will be delivered (finally, a place to sit in the remodeled living/dining/kitchen area!), I get my haircut (I went into labor with Hadley on my hair appointment date. It drove me nuts not having my haircut for so long.), I'll get more things organized, some painting will be finished, light blocking curtains will be hung, the car should get vacuumed, and maybe even a few more things! I have a good list that I conveniently left at work Monday :P I'll get it tomorrow. Oh, and I hope to get a few more things wrapped up at work before going into labor!!

Madeline - we're very excited to meet you! However, keep growing and getting healthier so that you'll be ready to participate in our crazy family!

Congratulations to some of our best friends Travis and Tessa on the arrival of Molly Carolynn! Both mom and baby are doing excellent! Sadie is proving to be quite the loving big sister already. Tessa was in active labor for just over 3 hours. She delivered Molly with 4 pushes! Wouldn't it be nice if I can share a short delivery story like that! One day I'll get a pic of all 4 girls together - how cute! Tessa and I are working on a girls basketball team ;) She's responsible for the post players. I'll take care of the guards.

36 weeks

My 36 wk visit was rescheduled this morning to today. Boy was I glad Chris was working from home today (and was willing and able to keep Hadley).

A lot has been going on, so here's the quick list update:
1) Bladder infection ended up being Group B Strep. Will have IV antibiotics during delivery to increase the chances that Madeline doesn't get it.
2) I think I have one, if not two, small hernias from all the pressure of the baby. They don't hurt, so no concern. We'll see if they go away after delivery.
3) Got the flu shot today. Wasn't planned, but found out they had the preservative free shot, so I went ahead.
4) Almost 100% sure I won't get the H1N1 vaccine, nor will Madeline or Hadley. We think we've already been exposed to it when Chris had it a month ago.

And for the details you may be waiting on!!!
I'm 1.5 cm and 70% effaced! Woohoo! This is just slightly more than with Hadley. Madeline's heartbeat sounded great. Her head is very low. I was glad to hear she's in position (although I do know she could move).

There's no reason to think I'll come early or late. Just glad Madeline's doing well and my body is doing what it's supposed to!

34.5 weeks

Whew, it's been too long since I posted. A lot has been going on!

In the last few weeks I've had a few mild issues. Apparently, for the first time in my life, I have a bladder infection. I knew I felt sick a few weeks ago... was needing to pee all the time... so I drank less... and then became dehydrated... which caused my blood pressure to get too low. etc.....
Well, my "pee pattern" hasn't changed. I just assumed this was typical pregnancy issues at this stage in the game. I just happened to have applied for new term life insurance and had a health exam. I found out from the health exam that I had a bladder infection which must've been behind all of the issues above! Now I'm on an antibiotic and hoping I will soon get to sleep for longer periods at night :D Come on, I've just got a few weeks of sleep left!

My doctor visits have gone well. I've gained 18 pounds - on the same track as with Hadley. I do need to eat and drink a little more. I'm not intentionally not eating and drinking enough. I think I just need even more nourishment that I did with Hadley because I now have Hadley to chase around!

Madeline's heartbeat has sounded good at every visit. I'm measuring right on target. My next visit, @ 36 weeks, the doctor will "check" me!! I wonder if I'll be dilated or effaced?? I bet something will have happened. I can definitely feel some changes and contractions. At 36 weeks with Hadley I was 1 cm and 70% effaced (I think).

Speaking of, one of my best friend's who is due 2 weeks ahead of me, found out she's a tight 3cm and mostly effaced. The doc told her to pack her bags!! That made me feel even more pressure to get our to-do list done!!

Madeline, we'll meet you soon!! Keep growing!

Almost 31 weeks

It's been quite a week! Started off with a small stomach bug, not drinking enough water, becoming dehydrated which caused my blood pressure to get too low. All that made me feel nauseous, so I didn't feel like eating. Not eating is not good when you should be eating for 2! I was weak for a few days, but have now gotten everything balanced back out. I am back to my normal 2nd pregnancy self - big belly, tiring somewhat quickly, and not sleeping well. Madeline moves so much and is so strong. I love feeling her move, although I have to admit, she's strong! Some of the kicks and pushes are uncomfortable. Madeline's most active time is between 10 and 11... my bedtime is 9:30. That should read - "My bedtime USED TO BE 9:30". Fortunately I've been able to get a nap in most days to make up for going to sleep late or not sleeping well.

At my 30 week visit this past Tuesday, Madeline measured right on target. Her heartbeat was good too. It seems like God is blessing us with another healthy girl! Chris and I were discussing her size. We're curious if she will be Hadley's size, bigger, or smaller? Of course I want her to be health most of all, but I hope she's not too much bigger for delivery purposes :D

Just over 9 weeks left. I'm getting more and more anxious to meet Madeline and hold her. Hadley has a certain level of understanding about the baby. An 18 month old's understanding. She'll rub my belly and say "Madeline". Sometimes she'll even kiss my belly! Tonight I showed Hadley a picture of herself around 4 months old. She pointed at it and said, "Madeline!" Chris and I both laughed and thought - well, they could look alike :D

28 weeks + / A Name?

Week 28 has snuck up on me! It didn't hit me how close I am to my labor day until I thought, 28 weeks along means 12 weeks left!

My dr. appt was this week. I got the rhogam shot. My weight went up another 2 or so pounds, so I'm tracking right inline with my weight gain for Hadley. You wouldn't know it from the looks of my belly! My blood pressure and the baby's heartbeat were both good. From now until 36 weeks I will go to the doc's every 2 weeks!

My cold has finally left me - today. It was rough!

This little girl moves all the time! She is so strong too. Next time you see me, just watch my belly. She'll put on a show and you'll be able to see it!

I'm still carrying very low. I think carrying low, the summer heat, having a cold, and not resting well are all reasons that I have no stamina. That embarrasses me. But, oh well.

I was waiting to let Chris post the name announcement, but the wait is over! He's had plenty of time. Thanks to Hadley, we have decided on a name (but reserve the right to change it if we want). The winner is:

Madeline Kate Gundersen

I was playing with Hadley and asked if she could say Madeline (yes, I asked her if she could say other names too). She actually said it very well and then pointed to my belly! So, the decision was made.

Approximately 11 weeks or less until I get to meet my newest baby girl! I am so excited!

26.5 weeks - General Thoughts

Today I've been reading some birth stories online. I read so many birth stories before Hadley was born. Learning about all of these experiences did help me prepare for Hadley's birth. My recollection of Hadley's birth has yet to fade, and I hope it never does. However, reading a story today did remind me of something about her birth that I hadn't noticed. This story ended with the comment, "There's nothing sweeter than the smell of a newborn baby." It hit me then that I didn't smell Hadley as a newborn. I had a pretty rough cold the week she was born and couldn't smell anything (interestingly enough, I am recovering from a bad summer cold as I type this). Maybe when this baby is born, I will get to experience the newborn smell!

Today, while lying on the floor with Hadley, the baby moved. Yeah, I know, big deal. Well, she moved below my belly button and pushed off of my back. I could see her whole body outline on my stomach! Not arms and legs, but I could wrap my hands around her! It was so crazy!

25 Weeks

Last Thursday was my 24 week doctor's appointment. I drank the juice for the gestational diabetes test, as well as had blood drawn for a few other tests. I got the call today that everything came back fine! Woohoo!

I was measuring 22.5 centimeters, normal but on the small side (no surprise there). We also heard her heartbeat!

No name yet :( Sorry!!! We are just as anxious as everyone else to know her name, but she hasn't told us yet!

Way Behind - 24.5 weeks

I'm way overdue for a post here! Over the past 3 weeks we've been busy getting ready for a kitchen remodel and family vacation. The vacation was a blast! We're smack in the middle of the kitchen remodel. Hadley and I left the house for part of the day today because some painting was being done. I don't want to bother this little growing girl with paint fumes.

For all who are interested, we still haven't picked out a name! I feel bad because we picked Hadley's name out by 21.5 weeks... We like Madeline Kate and Kendall (not sure on the middle name). I feel like this baby has a name already, we just have to figure out what it is. How funny would it be if we get to delivery without a name?! Maybe "funny" isn't the correct word here.

Swimming while pregnant was interested. I use the term "swimming" loosely. Holding Hadley in the water is more accurate. I did feel much lighter until I tried to swim. At that point my balance was a little off. Getting out of the pool was just weird. It was like all of the weight hit my legs at once. I had to take that part more slowly than usual.

All seems well. Baby G #2 is moving plenty. If I wake up at night and she starts moving, it keeps me awake for a bit. Chris and I are both getting very excited to meet and hold her! Less than 16 weeks!

More updates after my next appointment on Thursday.

21 weeks

I am officially 21 weeks in the morning! Woohoo! I am so in love with this little baby! She is becoming more active each day. Her kicks are getting stronger.

At 24 weeks, just after vacation, I have my 24 week visit which includes the gestational diabetes test. This went very well with Hadley. I'll be praying it goes as well this time. At my 28 week visit I get the rhogam shot... and it seems like something else happens then too... oh well. I can't remember. Have I mentioned that my blood pressure is very low? Each visit the nurses seem to do a small double take. The average is about mid 80s over mid 50s. No one mentions anything though (until I specifically ask). I hope this means I'm less likely to develop high blood pressure, which can cause problems with a pregnancy!

For those of you that are curious, we do not have a name yet. We are entertaining three possibilities at the moment, some with middle names, some that we haven't found a middle name for. Who knows where we will end up! I doubt we stay undecided for 19 more weeks though....

Just thinking

Remember how I mentioned that this baby's head appears to measure in line w/ the rest of her body? Well, I have to admit, when I heard that I said, "I could have this baby at home!" Haha, I won't, but I really wonder if I could. Most everyone says the second baby is easier to deliver... Well, if this baby is going to be easier and have a smaller head, then I possibly could do it! Like I said, I won't. This is because 1) I doubt Chris would go for it, 2) I don't want to have to clean up afterwards (or have anyone else have to clean up my house), and 3) I like being catered to for a day or two in the hospital!

Just some random thoughts to make you, and years down the road, me, laugh!

It's a GIRL!

Yep, you read correctly! Chris and I have been blessed with another beautiful baby girl! She is measuring right on target. Everything was normal. I gotta admit, when the doc said, "Everything looks GREAT!", I felt so excited, relieved, and proud! My 2nd daughter is already getting compliments ;)

For those of you that remember and are wondering (because I sure was), this little girl's head is measuring exactly the same as her body. Hadley's was a little big (and still is compared to the rest of her petite self), which is a big reason I had so much trouble pushing her out. Maybe this time delivery will be "easy"!

If I haven't said so already, I'm so excited!! Oh, and Chris and I have never planned to just have two children, so yes, we hope to get pregnant again one day and maybe have a boy! The truth is, we are both just thankful to be blessed with healthy children.

A big day tomorrow!

20 week ultrasound!! I am so excited to see our baby! I am anxious to find out that the baby is healthy. Not that I'm worried that the baby is not healthy. I guess it has more to do with knowing that if there is anything wrong, tomorrow is most likely the day we find out. Keep growing Baby G#2!!

I'll post sometime tomorrow evening regarding the gender results :D

Seeing kicks!

I saw the baby kick tonight! Actually, I saw quite a few kicks :D Woohoo, kick baby, kick!

18 weeks, really?!

Not much to report. I feel the baby kicking and moving around in the mornings while I'm sitting at work. The baby's getting strong enough that the kicks just barely get my attention even when I'm busy. I love feeling my baby move!

17 weeks

I actually had to stop and think, "What week am I on?" I guess I have too many distractions going on with this exam (CAS #7). It will be over in 2 weeks though (until the next sitting).

So, pregnancy news? I'm not quite sure what to say. I have experienced some round ligament pains, maybe once or twice. My baby bump is obvious. I feel the baby quite a lot. Chris has felt him or her too. No good kicks or punches yet.

My appetite is slowly increasing. I'm making a list of new dish ideas to cook that will hopefully be healthier (and tastier)! Today I made "chickenish nuggets", a recipe given to me by a friend. It's basically chopped up leftovers - chicken, veggies, and couscous, rolled in breadcrumbs and milled flax seed. While I wasn't able to make them quite like they were supposed to be made, they still tasted okay- and were healthy! (Hadley loved them).

Sleeping is going okay. My energy level is good, but my exercise level is nonexistent until this exam is over :( Fortunately, I haven't had much weight gain!

Coming up: 20 week ultrasound, 28 week gestational diabetes test, 28 week rhogam shot... not sure what else! Just trying to stay virus free with all the stuff going around (swine flu, strep, etc...). Bring on May!

16 weeks!

Chris, Hadley, and I arrived to my doctor's appointment 10 minutes late! I have decided that 8:15 is not a good time for an appointment. We hit every school zone and stoplight...

Other than having to wait a bit for the doc, everything went well. My blood pressure must be fine because they never say anything about it. I gained 2 pounds, which I find unbelievable. My body feels so much bigger lately!

I mentioned to the doc about the occasional headaches I've been having. Not sure if it's due to studying, allergies, or the increased blood flow from the pregnancy. I've had drainage too. This is a common pregnancy symptom in the second and third trimesters.

We did get to hear the baby's heartbeat, however, we didn't get to hear it long. The baby was on the move. Hadley didn't like the doppler, so her little brother or sister must not either! The doc tried to get a heart rate. IF she was able to get it, she said it was about 130 bpm. Hadley's was between 150 and 160 at 16 weeks. At 12 weeks the baby's heartbeat was higher... so, this little one isn't giving us any good guesses at the gender based on the heart rate!

The ultrasound has been scheduled for my 20 week visit! I'm very excited! I can't wait to see our baby move around, count his or her fingers and toes, and find out if we are having a "Lathen Christopher" or "??(insert girl name here)??"! Great times are coming :D

Forgetting things

With the first pregnancy, you know all the lingo and don't forget one milestone because it's all you have to think about and research. With pregnancy #2, I haven't researched as much because now I feel like I know what to expect (not to mention my time is taken up with Hadley and studying for my next actuarial exam). So, while reading a blog today, I just realized I had not been watching for when I "popped". I don't know when it happened, but I do know it's happened! My belly looks and feels much bigger than it did with Hadley at this stage. One big reason is it's common to get bigger sooner with the second pregnancy because you're body is ready to go back into that position. Another reason, I think, is I've been having some minor digestive/bloating issues that I did not have with Hadley. Sometimes I feel and look bigger than I am because my belly is just temporarily "swollen", lol.

As far as I can tell, the baby is doing fine. I think I felt a kick this week. We go back to the doctor for my 16 week check up on Tuesday. Praying for continued good news!

14 weeks!

14 weeks! I'm so excited! I can't wait to get this darn exam behind me so I can fully enjoy my husband, my Hadley, and my pregnancy! Last night I was having trouble getting to sleep (and sleeping). For a while I was lying on my back with my hand on my lower belly. All of the sudden I felt this lump! I had felt it a few times during the night. It wasn't until that specific moment that I realized, "This is the baby!!" I would have immediately told Chris so he could feel too, but he was sound asleep. Feeling your growing baby is so... awesome and heart warming! I just kept my hand there, lightly rubbing around the "bump". Chris used to play with Hadley when she was a little bigger than 14 weeks. He would feel the bump, give her a little push, and I would feel her either push back or scramble to another spot. You really can bond with your baby before you ever get to hold him or her. This is just one of many reasons that I cannot understand how anyone could do anything to harm a growing baby. A pregnancy, and as a result a child, is a gift from God, no matter the circumstance. Jeremiah 1:5 "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you..."

milestones

I think I forgot to post a very important milestone! During week 12 I felt the baby move! Well, the truth is I felt the baby "flutter". It feels just like that at this stage - a flutter on the inside of my belly. I have not felt him (or her) move since, but hope to again soon. It was so neat and exciting! I can't wait until Chris can feel the baby too. Hadley might even think it's fun... or weird... time will tell!

13 weeks tomorrow

I guess the first trimester is over now? The strange part is, I've felt worse this week than all other weeks. Work was a very different, busy week. When I got home Wednesday I was completely exhausted. I asked Chris to watch Hadley while I took a 30 minute nap. Bad idea. When I got up 30 minutes later, not only was I still tired, but I also felt sick! Over the next few days I've gotten a little bit of extra sleep to make up for the first half of the week. I actually had the thought, "How did I function being pregnant and working full-time? Why am I so tired?" I have no idea what the issue is/was. It could be that I now have a one year old that takes some of my energy. Or maybe it is that I was healthier then?

According to the wonderful internet, the baby is between 2.5 and 3 inches long and weighs up to .7 ounces.

12 weeks and 2 days

It's been a busy week (I'm exhausted), so I didn't get to post here on Monday like I meant to. Baby G's 12 week appointment was this Monday. It was very quick. Checked my weight, blood pressure, asking me if I was feeling okay, any concerned, and then checked for the heartbeat! While it was great to hear the heartbeat (even if it was only for a few seconds), I was disappointed that the doppler wasn't one that would tell us the heart rate. The doctor said it sounded like it was between 150 and 160. Chris and I both agree that it was slower than Hadley's (165 at 12 weeks). The key was, the doctor said it was a good, strong heartbeat! 4 more weeks to my 16 week check-up, and then 4 more to the ultrasound!!

I guess this week I am switching from the first trimester to the second? Where has the time gone??

11 Weeks!

I read online that at 11 weeks the baby is about the size of a plum and could fit in the palm of my hand! How sweet! I think the fingers and toes look like fingers and toes now, no webbing. All of the baby's organs should exist and now will grow and improve over the next 30 weeks.

My uterus should start to cause my stomach to poke out (or should I say, poke out more??) now. This will probably mean that my uterus is moving up and off of my bladder - YEAH! - however, this also means I won't be able to sleep on my stomach for a lot longer. If you are a stomach sleeper, I know you understand how big a deal this is!

I still feel good. I'm getting less tired. No real change in appetite yet. I can tell my belly is different, but no drastic changes. I'm sure those will come soon since my stomach muscles have been stretched out from my first pregnancy. The many joys of motherhood! Babies are worth all of the sacrifices!

Daddy, Mommy, and Hadley love you Baby G #2!!!

10 Weeks

Today was the 10 week mark - 25% of the way through this pregnancy already!! Everyone is correct, the second pregnancy does seem to go by more quickly than the first.

So, pregnancy symptoms? I still feel tired, but fortunately I have a wonderful husband that is happy to let me take naps! I'm not having to get up quite as many times at night to relieve myself. The baby is probably still resting on my bladder, so I think this is more a function of not drinking fluids after 8pm. Bloating is the biggest battle, but an infrequent one. The worst case of bloating thus far has made me feel like my belly is already 5 months pregnant.

Chris and I have talked some about where this baby will sleep once he or she is ready for a crib. Will we put the kids in same room so we can keep our current guest room? Or will they wake each other up, and as a result, cause us to lose more sleep than is necessary? Decisions, decisions...

Also, will we move Hadley to a big girl bed close to her 2nd birthday so the baby can use her crib? Or should we convert her crib to a toddler bed and buy another convertible crib for Baby G #2? Hmmm, that sounds pricey... Might not be in the budget if we follow through on the kitchen remodel this summer!

2 weeks until our next doctor's visit :D

First Doctor's Appointment - 8.5 weeks

Chris and I went to my first doctor's appointment today. The baby looked good (yes, just one), is measuring on target, and had a strong heartbeat that we could see but not yet hear. I am sticking to the 10/5 due date even though the doc said 10/4.

We went to a new doctor because Hadley's doctor does not do deliveries anymore. I really like the office. All of the nurses had laptops, so my information was ready no matter what room I entered! The ultrasound looked to be more detailed than I remember with Hadley at 8 weeks (but still not extraordinarily detailed). The office also had a room where I could get my lab work done instead of having to go to the other side of Baptist Hospital. Oh yeah, and the important part, the doctor seemed nice too! Next visit in 4 weeks...

7.5 weeks

Time is flying by as it usually does. I'm feeling pretty good. No real morning sickness, just some periods of not feeling quite right. I am working on my water intake and diet which seem to be helping. The increase in water seems to have helped the bloating.

I'm anxious to see the doctor. I don't feel like anything is wrong, I'm just generally anxious. The added pressure of having an exam in May (this is the biggie) in addition to the typical concerns of being able to handle 2 kids, juggling work and being a mom (a good mom), are all not helping. I'm not losing my mind (yet) ;) Each night when I pray I give my worries over to God. He tells us not to worry, so I'll keep working on it. I may have to give my worries over every night... and if that's the case, I'll do it!

6 weeks tomorrow

And my nose works! If I didn't already know I was pregnant, I might've the last day or two when my nose kicked into overdrive. Changing dirty diapers is going to be interesting...

I think I'm also getting a little tired. I took a good nap today after a good night's sleep.

Both normal pregnancy symptoms - looks like we are off to a great start!

5 week update

I'm 5.5 weeks right now. Feeling great! No morning sickness so far, just like I felt with Hadley. I've been going back and forth regarding the gender of this baby (I guess it's too soon to know if there could be more than one?!). Initially, I thought the baby was a boy... I quickly realized this was because of balance - one girl, one boy. Then, I thought this is a girl because Chris and I want/need to have a boy to carry on the family name. So, a girl would keep me from feeling relieved ;) Later on I thought this was a girl for ... we'll call them mathematical... reasons. Once I realized I couldn't explain this reasoning very well, I quit guessing!

Hmmm, I wonder what the internet has to say?? Feel free to make your own guesses! We should find out mid-May (right after I take my next actuarial exam). That will be a great post-exam reward!

Due October 5, 2009!

That's right! Hadley is going to be a big sister! Chris and I are the parents of 2 children! After taking the test and finding it unexpectedly positive, I wrote the following note so I could remember the day clearly:

I am in complete shock right now! Chris and I are going to have another baby!! About one hour ago I took a pregnancy test in the bathroom at WORK. Ugh. I had no other option. I have a dentist appointment today and was wondering if I could get the dental work done if I was pregnant. I'm on day 32, but no real signs of pregnancy that I can tell. Well, until I got the BFP :D There were no tests at home and the Dollar Tree was closed, so I went to the Target by work. I kept thinking that I didn't want to take a test this way. I wanted to be with Chris. I wanted to share the potential joy with him if it was a positive. But, there was no way to work that out. Besides, I didn't really think I was pregnant anyway... lol! So, different baby, different story! Baby G #2 will hear about me testing in the work bathroom, calling Daddy on the phone, and the doctors saying, "Congratulations! Didn't it take you a year and a half last time?"

Well, Chris and I are both very excited, but mostly shocked at this point. How awesome is it that we get another blessing from God!

Now, time to get serious about what I need to avoid and what I need to be more disciplined about - taking my vitamin (which I have been off and on), and exercising.... I've forgotten everything since Hadley!

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Today I am 4 weeks and 5 days pregnant. Very early. Here's what's going on with Baby G during week 4:

Your baby will be implanting furiously during pregnancy week 4 into the uterine lining, to ensure that she has a safe and secure home for the next nine months. Fetal development by and large is still in the earliest stages at this point in time. By now the blastocyst or ball of cells that is your baby will be imbedding deeper and deeper into the lining of the uterus. The amniotic cavity is forming and the placenta is starting to form.